Develop Relationship with One sided Intimacy | INFJ Personality Growth Advice for Success

11 Comments on “Develop Relationship with One sided Intimacy | INFJ Personality Growth Advice for Success”

1. This really resonated with me. Subbing! Sending peace, love & gratitude :^)

2. Wow… I rarely comment on videos but I can't believe it, it's as though you're talking about my own situation… This is exactly what I need. Have you ever thought about doing one-on-one (paid) counselling sessions? I've had a talk last night with my girlfriend about the way I feel right now and I felt like I couldn't ever really talk about this to anyone even though I have many friends. Anyway thanks again. Your channel is pure gold.

3. Thank you so much, great advice.

4. "watch out for their actions,eventhough you knew better,eventhough you knew that they are hurting deep down inside." Needed this.Thanks :-)

5. You are so insightful. Thank you!

6. Overall, a good video. I got lost a couple of times because I didn't know if you were talking about the behavior of the other person of of us (the INFJ's) being that way. Next time, I think if you would be more explicit, it would be more clear. It's obvious you have knowledge, experience, and sincerity. I give anyone willing to make videos high praise. Thank you.

7. I would love to communicate with other INFJs. If you are interested in the existential insights of a mature INFJ and would like to discuss and compare notes, please visit my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5r3bNEcthJDR9HwurZbu9dTrFbPpzVrp

8. I've always been fond of Se types as well. Since my last SP lady, I've grown a good bit more of a spine though. Learned to stop being so controlling, too. I guess just Se stuff. I haven't been looking for anyone else, but if I were, I wonder if Se would still be such a priority on my list.

9. Ahhh! I did this with my ISFP ex 7:00. "Forcing" the intimacy this way really killed it for us, I think. You really gotta play it chill with SFPs, and that stuff scares the crap out of them. It makes since, too. I was way too accommodating, and she was pretty nasty and controlling for an ISFP. Like most INFJs, I just accepted it on the basis of "understanding," which she in turn responded to by acting more disrespectful… because I gave her no indication I should be respected. This hurt, but instead of standing up for myself, I whined, and she laughed. Then we would make up when she'd feel bad, only to get worse the next round. It was a cycle that had me begging in the end and her running off to get woth another dude just after. Haha it was pathetic. Thankfully I've made a mature ESTP friend since then, that has had a major influence on my life in the self-respect department.

10. I appreciate this video so much. :)

11. around the 4:30 mark…i wonder if what we lack becomes what we seek,..ok yes, and i think we are aware of that as part of our nature to seek this out in others….my question is, Do we infj in general adhere to the 'stronger together' idea, as far as 'team building' and seeing ourselves as part of a 'bigger whole'?

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